Sunday, September 20, 2009




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In Varanasi, I had to wake up by 4 something in the morning to make it to the bus station to catch the first bus to Saunali on the border with Nepal. In the pitch dark, I woke up an old man who was sleeping in the lobby of my hostel (in fact there were 3 men sleeping in the lobby), and with some provocation, I convinced him to walk me out to the main street. This was my first use of my headlamp, mostly to avoid the cow poop which is plentiful in the the alleys of Varanasi. When we reached the main street, my elderly escort woke up another man sleeping on a cart, who stumbled over to his rickshaw in a stupor and haggled with me about the price, and then we were off toward the station. I waited at the mosquito-infested station (first use of DEET) for about an hour, and then boarded the cramped, dirty, uncomfortable bus for the border. The driver complained that I was taking up an extra seat with my bag, and so with great difficulty I tried to shove it into the overhead shelf, but it wouldn't fit. Then I tried to wedge it under the seat. Bad idea. I had a water bottle hanging out of my bag, and it leaked all over the ground creating a sort of slurry of dirt and dust and water that I then rubbed my bag in. Realizing that I couldn't fit it under the seat, I lifted it up, smearing mud all over myself and then the seat as well. I find that days in India have their extreme highs and lows; this was a low moment. But-ah ha!-I had wet wipes with me! I wiped down the seat and the bag and myself, and then I realized that the entire bus of passengers was watching my struggle with amazement. Silly white girl with her wet wipes. Finally, I decided to move to the back of the bus where I could perhaps discreetly take up an extra seat with my bag. The journey that then ensued was an 11 hour, bumpy, slow, sweltering hell, with the dust from the semi-paved road coating my face and arms in a thick layer of filth. I will say that the Indian people are an amazingly patient bunch; my fellow passengers weathered the trip with utter composure, even though some were standing in the isle for distances of 100km. At one point when someone asked me about my bag taking up a seat, I laboriously hoisted it onto my lap, which then cut off my view entirely, practically suffocating me in my tiny seat. And the space that was now free was too small for a human--so the men just laughed and told me to put the bag back. In some ways, I loved this bus trip because it took me through every town and village from Varanasi to Nepal, getting stuck in every main street traffic jam, car horns blowing nearly constantly. It was a great viewpoint from which to watch the everyday lives of the people of India-- selling bananas at a roadside stand, brushing their teeth in the morning, peeling cucumbers for sale, repairing rickshaws, etc. I will also mention that I did not use the bathroom for 11 hours and ate only coconut cookies along the way. The one time I thought I would find a toilet during a 10 minute stop, I was afraid to stray too far from the bus (leaving my bag behind), and the locals kept directing me farther down the street to whatever shithole (literally) there was available. So I retreated back to the bus, resigned to holding it. When I got back on, the tiniest, thinest man I have ever seen (with sunken cheeks) was occupying my seat. I wedged him politely aside (he didn't really need a full seat). I was the only white person on the bus for the entire 11 hours. There was one Japanese guy, but I didn't notice him until we had already crossed the border. At one point, the bus stopped at a roadside restaurant, and about half of the passengers piled out to eat. I debated whether it was safe to eat there, but I noticed that the dishes were being washed in a pale of nasty brown water by the edge of the road, so I stayed on the bus. I'm sure I will eat in similar conditions during my trip, but I really didn't want diarrhea on the bus. I guess there is no good time for diarrhea. So, the journey continued to the border where it slowly became more rural and more poor and more beautiful, with rice paddies outnumbering rickshaws, and the roads becoming quieter. I took a final rickshaw to the Indian Immigration desk where I was stamped out, and then walked across the border. It was like night and day, like a breath of fresh air. Immediately in Nepal, I spotted a public toilet, and when I didn't have the 5 Nepali rupees I needed to use it, I told them that I would give them a 'smile,' and they accepted. The men at the Nepal immigration desk were very friendly and welcoming, directing me toward the bus station. After dodging some tourist bus touts, I bought some more coconut cookies, used the ATM, and boarded the night bus to Kathmandu. The seats on this bus were cloth and had been slept in by hundreds of sweating bodies, and so they were damp and smelled like the funk of humanity. In the middle of the night, the bus stopped at a restaurant and I ate my first Nepali meal of dal baat (with my hands), and it was delicious and hearty! Maybe the best meal I've had on my trip so far, and only $1. In some ways I'm so glad that it was dark and I couldn't see the journey to Kathmandu because the bus tore around hairpin curves at great speeds, missing oncoming buses by inches. All I saw all night were rock faces on both sides of the bus. Or just pure darkness; I have no idea what the terrain was like.
I arrived in Kathmandu before I had anticipated--about 4:30 in the morning, and I asked my taxi driver to take me to the Kathmandu Guesthouse, which happened to be open at that hour, miraculously. They did not have any rooms available, so I waited until it was light out and walked down the street to the Horizon Hotel, which only had their penthouse suite for $10. I took it--I was too exhausted and dirty to walk from guesthouse to guesthouse for the lowest price. This room turned out to be a real treat; it overlooks Kathmandu and has a lovely private balcony with two green chairs and a place to hang my laundry.

Friday, September 18, 2009















Leaving the Varanasi train station, I wanted to find the nearby bus station to inquire about tickets to Nepal. A tout walked me to the incorrect place, and then back to the real bus station, where I found out I could not purchase tickets in advance. From there, I haggled hard for a 30 rupee cycle rickshaw ride into the old town. The Lonely Planet guide does not mention that Varanasi is perhaps the most confusing city to negotiate, and any hope of using a map to find your way is out of the question. After being dropped in the old town, I was again lost. Another tout immediately approached me, and with his help and 20 rupees later, I found the guesthouse I was looking for. Upon arrival, I realized that the two Spaniards from the train had chosen this guesthouse as well. The three of us, plus a guy from Argentina, had lunch in the rooftop restaurant, and then wandered the ghats for hours, watching the burning of bodies right in front of us. We could not walk along the water because this is post-monsoon season and the water level was too high. Instead, we had to find each ghat individually by chance, winding our way through the labrynth of alleys that lead away from the water. At dusk we took at boat ride along the Ganges to view the ghats from a different perspective. And then in total darkness, we stood practically in the fires of a ghat to watch yet another burning. This particular ghat runs 24/7 evidently. Cremation is a good business here.

Varanasi ghats and me (yes, they are burning bodies behind me)


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view from my hostel in Varanasi


my last few moments in Delhi, from the roof of my hostel at sunset


I spent one more day in Delhi, visiting the National museum and wandering around India Gate and Connaught Place, and then boarded a night train to Varanasi. The New Delhi train station is very intimidating, with hundreds of passengers lying around waiting for their trains (there are no chairs). I waded through this crush of people to find my train, and within a short time I had found my seat in a second class non-air conditioned sleeper cabin. Within minutes, a young Japanese traveler joined me in my section, and then moments later a Spanish couple came, and then just before the train left, two more Japanese folks joined us. They had assigned all the tourists in one cabin. I guess that explains why we foreigners have to go to a separate office to buy our tickets. At ease in each other's company, we flipped our bunks into position and settled in for the evening. I slept quite well, really, even with the trains roaring by in the opposite direction virtually all night.

Thursday, September 17, 2009


The precursor to the Barbie doll? Very busty goddesses.


the Parharganj, the tourist street







random playground in Delhi


looking out from the top of Jama Masjid mosque


building inside the red fort
(the 3 people in the picture were my companions for the day)

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

The streets in Delhi can be intimidatingly filled with touts and merchants and rickshaw drivers and begging children. I am perfecting my stony-face to ward them off. Evidently the "who-whooo" whistle at a woman is universal. Where did they learn it? American movies?

Yesterday, I met some travelers in my hostel (two Chileans and a Brit) and we spent the day sharing rickshaws and seeing the sights in Delhi. Evidently four people to an auto-rickshaw is no big deal here. And for 80 rupees on average (75 cents), it is quite a deal. It was a great, exhausting, exhilarating day. We went to the massive Red Fort built by Shah Jahan in the 1600s. The Fort was perhaps less amazing than I had hoped, especially for 250 rupees. It seems that in Delhi the real 'sights' are just the streets of the city itself. Across the street from the fort is the Jama Masjid, a mosque also built by the Shah. The view from the top steps of the mosque overlooks the tarp-roofs of a nearby bazaar. It was a great perspective over the city. My new friends and I became the main attraction atop this mosque. We quickly had a circle of locals surrounding us, happily taking pictures and watching us talk to each other. That was the third time that day I had noticed Indians taking pictures of me. I guess it's all fair; I'm here in their country staring at them and taking pictures. They should be allowed to do the same to me.
We tried to find a restaurant (listed in the guide) near the mosque, but we ended up wandering down an endless alley that became more congested and narrow as we went along. It was wall-to-wall people, bicycles, motorcycles, sheep, goats, shops, etc. At certain times we would come to a deadlocked bottleneck where there were too many vehicles trying to pass each other in the narrow alley. Eventually, the jam would be released, and we would continue on our way. After about an hour 'lost' in this alley, we were deposited again onto the main street. This sort of claustrophobic experience is great for a day, but I wouldn't want it to be my life, everyday.


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drab hotel in Delhi













I'm starting this blog not knowing how far I'm going to get with it, and how easily I will be able to upload images along the way. I arrived in Delhi at 10:30pm on September 15, 2009, and miraculously, a man was waiting at the airport for me with a sign with my name on it. I had booked my hostel and pickup ahead of time, but was fully anticipating needing alternative transportation. But there he was; for a mere $10, a man was waiting for me in India. Amazing. The ride to the hotel was hot, dusty and smoky, with the windows down, along mostly unpaved roads into town. The traffic was much like Bangkok--crowded and congested, even at this late hour. The cars weave in and out of lanes. These lanes seem to be only for decorative purposes, because they certainly don't mean anything to the drivers. Horns are used liberally, as in Thailand, as a way to warn other drivers that they are passing around.

The area where I am staying, the Paharganj, is the tourist ghetto, like Khao San Rd. in Thailand. When I arrived late last night, the main street was vacant and closed up for the night except for dozens of men sleeping on carts and many stray dogs. It was a bit of a frightening experience; again, I was very glad to have had someone picking me up at the airport and delivering me to my hostel.

My Delhi hotel is drab and plain, but clean and quiet. The breakfast they serve is the most 'white' meal I've had in a while--cornflakes with milk, white bread, banana, omelet, and tea. I guess that's what tourists eat.

After waking up, I went to the train station up the street to buy my train ticket south. After finding out that no trains were available from Agra to Varanasi in the next couple of days, I decided to go straight from Delhi to Varanasi on a very long train ride of 13 hours or so. While I was buying my train ticket, the man who was helping me paused like he was going to sneeze, and then slowly and casually got a blank train reservation form from off of his desk, and stuck his head under the desk and blew his nose (from a distance) into the piece of paper. He did this for maybe 30 seconds, making sure he had gotten everything out, and then calmly returned to typing on his keyboard.